Is this the male gaze? Is the appreciation of the female form in it's most natural states and situations objectification? Voyeurism, even? I hope not. I'd like to think catching a glimpse of something aesthetically pleasing, triggering the pleasant brain juices, appreciating the moment and keeping it inside you like a little treasure, a little surprise treat, isn't inherently malicious. We're all here, we all have bodies. 8000 something years ago we all ran naked through the woods. The only thing that changed is the society around it and it's expectations regarding our fleshy vessels. And a woman exposing a bra strap, or any part of her body for that matter, with intention or not, does not entitle any onviewer to their body, intimacy or their attention.

And I know this is a fetish website and I'm getting in way too deep here but, if in real life, a person cannot look at another actual real life person's bodypart, without immediately harassing them about it, that's just unwell.

You are allowed to find a stranger sexy, you are allowed to feel attracted to someone who's services you attend to, you're allowed to look at a tightly packed butt even, just don't be a dick about it.

Get weird about it in the privacy of your own home, if you must. No one will stop you from respectfully squeezing one out to the memory of your dentist's chest gently resting against your head, while smelling her perfume, or the sight of your waitress' wet pits while she treated you with an extra warm smile and joke today.

Just be excellent to each other.

Cheers! 🤙